Monday, 17 November 2008

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  Judging Relationships

  A lot of people like to judge other couples. They like to say whether or not a couple will last long or not last at all. She's weird. He's loud. She's bitchy. He's clingy. They're soooo annoying together. They're dumb together. Etc. I'll be the first to admit that I do that sometimes too. From here on out though, I'm going to try really hard not to do it at all anymore. Why?

  I realized that a lot of people don't know what goes on in a couple's relationship by simply looking at it from the "outside."  We don't know why certain people are together and why she loves him or he loves her. But if we want to judge or find out why, maybe should do our research first... perhaps ask?

  In any case, instead of judging other couples, I'm just going to reflect on my own life and focus on my own relationship. Don't worry. Nothing dramatic has happened to make me write this blog entry. I'm writing this entry because I realized that I am guilty of judging other people and their relationships, and I am tired of being this kind of person. I'm writing this as a reminder to myself to be a better person. I'm writing this for myself, and I'm also writing this to enlighten those who may or may not know anything about my relationship with Derrick..for those who are simply curious.

  Now, I'm not going to put my personal life on blast, but just know this: I'm really happy. Almost 4 years have passed, and I get to wake up to somebody that makes me feel more beautiful inside and out everyday. I'm with someone who has one of the kindest and most genuine hearts. I'm with someone who works for greater causes than himself, who cares for other people he doesn't even know, who has worldly goals, who doesn't hesitate to give or think twice when the cashier asks if he wants to donate money to support breast cancer research. If you want to know more, ask me or ask him. Get to know me. Get to know him. Get to know us. We're interesting people, and an awesome couple, and I'm happy. Can you tell?

  

  Meatwad (Aqua Teen Hunger Force) & Red Electric Guitar

  Halloween 2008 - Bonnie Springs, Las Vegas 

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